Erotic massage is a great way to have fun with your partner as long as you know how to do it correctly. It allows both people to relax together and establish a physical and emotional connection. The most important thing, however, is that you pay attention to your partner’s reaction as you massage their body. If they tend to grimace when you touch certain sensitive areas or if they tell you they don’t want to continue this type of activity, it’s best to stop.
Choose a place where no one will bother you
Choose a place where no one will bother you. You need to choose a place that is both quiet and intimate, so you can be comfortable spending time together and relax. This can be a bed, the bathroom or even on the couch if that is more comfortable for you.
Sexual massage should be considered an intimate act and is not something you share with strangers without knowing the basic rules of intimacy. Sexual positions vary from person to person so it is important to communicate with your partner before doing anything to allow them to express their feelings about the situation and their particular desire for the massage they want (if any).
Use oils or creams specifically designed for sensual massages
For you, this massage may be a challenge since you are not used to massaging your partner. The best way to relax is to take time to breathe and enjoy the sensations of the moment.
Then, start by paying special attention to the tactile area that is in contact with your skin: this will allow you to focus on the act you are doing instead of thinking about the places that are not yet touched. If you feel chills or tingles on your skin, take the opportunity to explore them and feel their contours. To speed up the relaxation process, it’s best if your partner is naked while receiving the sensual massage so you can feel their body heat directly.